It is not easy to grow up without knowing who your father is or, even worse, to have his photograph and never meet him in person. Many people decide to look for their father when they are adults, and when they find them they use a home paternity test to prove that they are their children. Some men agree to take such tests because they have no legal validity. Even if the result is positive, the father will not be obliged to look after his children. But what happens when that man doesn’t want to be involved with his children? Unfortunately, some people make decisions without understanding that they are destroying the lives of others. If you are in this situation, try to deal with reality first. It is not easy and takes time, but it is worth the effort. Once a person understands that their biological father will no longer be part of their life, it is much simpler to develop loving relationships with other people.
Three things you must not do
If your father has decided not to be a part of your life, you should avoid making these three mistakes. The first mistake is to think you are to blame for your father’s absence. Each person is responsible for their own actions and cannot blame others for what they do. This approach leads to the second mistake, thinking that your actions caused your father’s abandonment. While it is true that growing up without a father is painful, … Read MoreContinue reading